Do you feel like your relationship is not working? Well I figure your answer is yes or else you would not be reading this right now. I have a few other questions that you may want to ask yourself first. I know you will answer honestly to yourself.
Do you look back at the past and wonder how you got to where you are now in your relationship?
Furthermore, Telecoustic do you want those past days and feelings back?
Do you feel like you and your partner are just going through the motions of everyday life?
Does your relationship feel more like a part time job than fun?
Those are just a few questions that I found I was asking myself. In this article I will provide you with a little insight to my experiences in high hopes that it will help whom ever is reading this.
I was in the same situation. My relationship was not "working" for either of us anymore. My girlfriend would come home from work, I would have made dinner, we would eat then watch TV. Around eleven or so we would go to be just to start the process all over again the next day. In my head I knew something, somewhere was wrong but I just could not put my finger on it. Does this sound familiar?
My "Soul Searching" Phase.
You can call it what you will but I just used "Soul Searching" for lack of a better description. This is kind of a mental inventory I took of how life was going and how my relationship was going. Some of the things I asked myself were:
What kind of future can I realistically see with this person?
What kind of future do I WANT with this person.
Am I actually happy or do I just think I am or have I just convinced myself that I am?
And then the most important thing I asked was; Am I willing to work on this relationship or do I just want to walk away?
It is very difficult to take an honest poll of yourself when you are in a situation where your relationship is not working. I don't know about you but I did a very good job of convincing myself that everything was OK when it actually was not.
My Advice To You
Are you still with me? Thanks for reading this far! The most honest and genuine advice I can give you is to be honest with yourself. Take some time to think about some of the questions in this article. Don't just go with the answers you think you know, actually think about it. You will find that maybe you have been convincing yourself that you are actually OK with a relationship that is not working.
Need A Little Motivation?
This is a link to my blog, Relationship Help. There are more articles to motivate you and a link to a really helpful and powerful book. You can never have too much information to help you out. WARNING: I tend to be very honest and upfront. This other article [2009/07/how-to-get-back-my-ex-boyfriend.html]Ex Boyfriend Back is a good example. I wish you the best of luck in life and love!
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